Last night I caught myself right on time….I almost fell into the trap of being the “good girl” again…
I grew up with a special needs brother, my older brother who required a lot of attention, most of the rest of us in my family. Me, being the second born child, I wanted to be a good girl and help my parents and of course my brother, and today I recognize that through the years this translated in me learning that my needs were not as important as others.
As you might already know from my last email, last month I experienced a very successful month financially in my business, where I made more in the month of April 2014 than what I made the whole year of 2011, working 6 days per week.
Now this is HUGE, and how is this relevant to being a Good Girl?
These past couple of weeks, even though I was busy in New York City working with amazing clients I adore, I recognize that I was pulling back a little bit from things I committed to do in my business. I fell into the place of being the GOOD GIRL again, where I was almost thinking that my needs have been already met, taken cared for with this huge month, so now it was turn for others to receive the attention, the big month, etc.
But wait a minute, why can’t I have a bigger month this month as well?
A lot of my clients have been asking me this week: “Paula, how can I expand my capacity for receiving?”. I know as women we fall into the trap of putting ourselves last, not wanting to take too much space or be as visible… does this resonate with you? This has SO much to do with RECEIVING. If we are sending the message to the Universe by putting ourselves last or not wanting to call attention or too much space, what do you think is happening? We are closing off our channels of receiving.
Today I want to invite you to fully go there and dig deep into the areas in your life where you might be blocking your capacity to receive in a bigger and grander way.
– Which areas do you feel are closed off?
– How is this affecting YOU and the rest of the other areas?
– What is it that you are looking to receive in your life? Is it more abundance, a loving partner, more travel, to dress beautifully, more clients, up leveling in your business?
– What are you committed to do in order to expand your capacity for receiving?
Know that the areas where you might be stuck can be very sensitive and tender and do require loving attention, so most of all, allow yourself to receive the quality of support you require to unlock this blocks.
NO MORE being the good girl, open the channels to receive the life you truly desire and be open to manifest your hearts desires. The more you receive the more you have to give!
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