MEET YOUR
ARCHETYPES
The first step to becoming an Empowered Woman is to know yourself. For this, we must find what triggers you and how to respond, instead of reacting to the world. You must also learn how to hone your energy and express yourself in an authentic and empowered way.
On this page, I’m super excited to introduce you to the Empowered Woman Archetype System™. I created this system to help you activate and integrate feminine principles into your everyday life so you can experience more ease, flow and find YOUR balance to create life on YOUR terms.
Within EVERY woman there are four essential archetypes:
These archetypes represent the very nature of the feminine in her empowered state (Good Girl and Wild Woman) and in her wounded state (Victim and Bitch).
They activate in different times and situations in our lives.
THE GOOD GIRL
SHE´S CARING AND LOVING
Unconditional Love
Compassionate
Caring / Thoughtful
Empathetic / Kind
Soft / Sweet / Resourceful
Sensitive / Graceful
Generous / Peacemaker
Pure Joy
INTUITIVE
THE ONE THAT GIVES AND
LOVES MAKING OTHERS HAPPY
HER HOME: THE HEART
THE VICTIM
SHE REVEALS WHAT NEEDS
TO BE HEALED
SACRIFICE & UNWORTHINESS
Overgiving / Overcompensation
Lack of confidence & self-esteem
Feels unseen & abandoned
Seeks approval & validation
Avoids confrontation
No boundaries
CAN’T ENJOY DUE TO GUILT
Puts value outside of herself
NOT GOOD ENOUGH &
SELF-SABOTAGE
Procrastination
Disappointed
Gives to Receive
FEAR – GUILT – SHAME
THE BITCH
SHE FIGHTS FOR OUR PROTECTION
AND OUR SANITY
SURVIVAL – SCARCITY – STRUGGLE
Perfectionism / Pressure
Demanding / Impatient
Critical / Judgmental
Frustration / Anger
Expectation / Resentment
Closed off / Lack of trust
NO TIME TO ENJOY
Unfulfilled / Dissatisfied
DRIVEN BY MASCULINE ENERGY
Self-Sufficient / Doesn’t ask for help
Hard / Only shows her strong side
Dominant / Aggressive
Entitled / Impatient
USES ANGER AS POWER
THE WILD WOMAN
SHE INVITES US TO LIVE A LIFE
OF FREEDOM, FLOW AND ABUNDANCE
Confident / Daring
Wise / Creative
Open / Authentic
Sensually and Sexually Alive
Full of Vitality and Energy
Beauty / Pleasure
Fun / Adventurous
Courageous / Spontaneous
INSTINCTIVE
HAS LOVE FOR SELF
THE ONE THAT KNOWS HOW TO RECEIVE AND ENJOY LIFE
HER HOME: THE WOMB
THE KEY TO OUR FEMININE POWER IS TO KNOW WHY AND WHEN THEY GET ACTIVATED AND
WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT
TAKE THE EMPOWERED WOMAN QUIZ™
Learn which archetype is activated in your life right now and how to come back to balance
Disempowered Feminine Cycle
How is the Disempowered Feminine Cycle is affecting you…
This cycle is what keeps you stuck, living in fear and scarcity, blocked from your authentic and abundant self, and away from creating the life you know you are meant to live.
HOW IT BECOMES A CYCLE?
It begins with your Good Girl, who genuinely loves to give and share her love with others. You get very busy losing yourself to make others happy. You give and give and don’t receive (because being a good girl means being loving and generous to others first).
You feel guilty if things work out for you and not for others.
You deny our needs.
You sacrifice.
This is when your victim gets activated.
You feel unseen, abandoned, unloved and disappointed. And you continue to try: “maybe if I do it this way or maybe if I try harder, I’ll be deserving of what I want.”
But nothing changes. As a result, you end up feeling depleted, defeated and even powerless.
This is when your Bitch takes over. You’re exhausted from having to be the one always doing, caring and making things work for others.
At this point, you’re tired of not being heard, considered or appreciated.
You’ve had enough. You’re frustrated and resentful.
Then your Bitch snaps and explodes like a volcano.
Your Bitch Archetype uses anger and masculine energy as a source of power to make things right. But what we don’t realize is that from this place NOBODY WINS.
This “power” doesn’t create, it destroys everything we love, just like a hurricane in nature.
After the explosion, of course, you feel guilty and horrible for your anger and you go back to being the Good Girl to make it all better. You give even more to overcompensate for what happened and soon enough, the cycle starts again. The victim getting activated and then the Bitch and then the Good Girl and so on…
I know what you might be thinking, ”This is crazy making!”
It is and there’s no shame here! We DIDN’T learn ANY other way.
The Disempowered Feminine Cycle keeps us safe and sane (well…at least functioning) but in this state, are we truly happy, fulfilled and satisfied inside?
If we don’t break this cycle, we’ll end up frustrated and disappointed with life, working really hard for everything that we want, trapped in a cycle of guilt, resentment and scarcity and not be able to truly receive what we desire.
The good news? I found THE key to get you out of this cycle.
